Pastoral Care

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St. Mary’s is a town centre Church with congregations from the town and beyond. We aim to do our best to offer helpful and appropriate pastoral care to all of our congregations, staff, and visitors. Obviously the best place to offer pastoral care is through our existing friendship groups, but sometimes it’s helpful to know what else might be available. This page summarises what we currently offer and some of our development plans.

At St Mary’s, we have a lay Pastoral Care Team who meet regularly so that their ministry is not exercised in isolation and so they can receive teaching and training and discuss problems encountered in the course of their work. We are in the process of reorganising our Pastoral Visiting Team and our Bereavement Support Team.

Part of the role of pastoral care in any Church is to see how best to live out Jesus’ commandment in our life together. The apostle Paul spent some time in his epistles trying to help the young churches learn how to ‘love one another’. For example, in the letter to the Galatians: ‘Bear one another’s burdens’ . . . ‘Let us not grow weary in well-doing’ . . . ‘So then whenever we have the opportunity, let us work for the good of all’.

The precept of doing good to one another, caring for one another, is to be found throughout the pages of Scripture, both explicitly and implicitly. Jesus says that the nature and quality of our relationships will be one way in which people will know we belong to him. It is a calling to each of us to care for others. It is not just the prerogative of specialists; it is for everyone: all are called to it, all are chosen to participate.

As we grow together in this mutual caring, we are living out the kingdom of God where all can find their place and know God’s love expressed in our worship, prayer, and life together. In this way of living together we find where earth and heaven meet

Our aims and objectives are:

  1. To provide the love, support and empowerment of Jesus to anyone in need within Church groups, the Church family and the town.
  2. To make all who enter the Church, be it regulars or visitors, feel part of God’s family
  3. To have a reinvigorated pastoral team up and running as soon as possible.

Home Groups
These are places of mutual care and support; this is expressed by prayer, spiritual encouragement and practical help. Please contact the Parish Office if you would like to join a home group.

Please see the Home Group page for more information.

Hospital Visits
If you go into hospital, please let the Parish Office know so that we can be in touch with the Hospital Chaplain on your behalf. We may also be able to organise a visit from a member of the congregation or clergy team.

Home Link
If you become housebound there is a team of lay people who can visit, and another team who are ordained who can bring you communion.

To make a request for a visit please contact the Parish Office.

Open House
StM Open house

If you are recently bereaved or facing other life challenges, you are invited to our “Open House” sessions held every month in the Parish Hall. Not only will you meet others in your situation but also members of our bereavement support team.

Friday Soup Lunch – Providing a weekly meeting point and refreshment for many.

Long-Term Counselling or Spirtual Direction
These instances will usually be referred to appropriate specialists. The clergy are often able to help members of the congregation find suitable resources.

The Clergy Team
We are always happy to see people on pastoral matters.

Pastoral matters – please let us know if you or someone you care for would like a general pastoral visit or Communion visit at home or in hospital. Call the Parish Office on 625268 or contact Mary Harris, our Pastoral Worker and care co-ordinator for the Pastoral team – Tel: 07753 840118 or email